Breaking Important Big Darn News.
Tomorrow is my last day at the Big J aka The Juilliard School.
My.
Last.
Day.
This is long in the offing. Again, I'm not done processing it yet, and as I've been saying all week, this is NOT goodbye--because I will see many of
these colleagues and friends later. Also, the many, many reasons that have brought to me to this point have to be processed and may be shared, sometime, long after there's a nice separation built up.
It wasn't an easy decision, and then it was--and then it wasn't--and then it was. As most life-changing things often are.
The following is a slightly edited version of a letter I sent to my colleagues last week.
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Dear All:
You may have seen the e-mail
sent out last week by my VP, announcing some staff changes in
Development, including my departure as of Friday, January 31st. I wanted to
follow-up with my own personal note.
February 2014 would mark the
end of my seventh year at Juilliard. While seven has always been my lucky
number, I decided to try my luck at another venture this coming year.
I have been so fortunate to have been at the School through some
interesting transitions. From rocking through the renovation and expansion
(sometimes literally, while sitting at my desk), or wearing hard hats while in
heels, to digging in and doubling up on duties through the economic downturn,
it has been my honor to serve in three positions and work with three VPs, as
well as a host of hardworking colleagues, eager interns, and talented
work-studies. It has also been thrilling to attend a host of spectacular
performances across all the boards of dance, drama, vocal arts, and classical
music. It has truly been a remarkably rich and rewarding experience. I will
treasure the collegiality and friendships that I've found at the "Big
J."
I continue to wish all of my colleagues in Development & Public Affairs the
very best as they endeavor to raise funds to continue the important mission of
the School. I also wish them and I.T. a continued successful roll-out of the new
ticketing system and ongoing efforts to integrate the various database systems.
There is no place like New York, New York, (it's a helluva town), but boy...
will I be glad not to be commuting in here every day – especially after being
stuck at Grand Central Terminal for three long, crowded hours last night. (That
was NOT FUN!)*
I'll be traveling for a bit
in February, but also starting a renewed reverse commute to some familiar
gardens and grounds -- at Caramoor,**
"upstate," in Westchester County, where I will be rejoining their
development team in a director capacity.
I hope to see many of you in the "country" this summer for some
wonderfully diverse musical and artistic offerings. Please feel free stay in
touch via my personal email.
Thank you all, for
everything. I cannot say THANK YOU enough.
Sincerely,
P.S. I know it is the tradition to have a farewell party
when someone departs, but I have expressed my personal preference not to have
one. I will make my rounds for more personal good-byes all of next week.
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There were a variety of reactions to this announcement and email (which saw many drafts and much thought). I wish I had compiled them. (I may yet, as they are somewhere in the work email archive.)
I almost got out the door this week without a hoo-rah, as I call them. But no. Even with a cancelled train this morning, and then a late train on top of it, there was a lovely little departmental (plus guests) cupcakes/bagels gathering. Thank goodness I realized I would have to give a speech. I got up around up at 2 a.m. to write down some thoughts. (Introverts need time to prepare and rehearse and "gird their loins.") In true introvert fashion, I also had to be dragged back to my own party. (But I was really dealing with email archiving with I.T., and it gave me an excuse to step out and regroup. I AM NOT CRYING ABOUT THIS. THIS IS A GOOD THING!)
As rocky as the last bit has been, and as varied as some of the interpersonal relationships have been, I do think this seven year period was mostly beneficial for me, just from the exposure, experiences, and connections forged.
THANK YOU, even in emails and blog posts, can't really say it enough.
Even though, as you'll see, I tried
Dear ALL:
Thanks again, everyone, for the lovely send-off
carbily-fantastic breakfast gathering. The Baked by Melissa cupcakes are a nice
homage to the many Melissas formerly on staff, as well as the many delectable
treats that were made, shared, and ingested in my time here. The bagels were a
perfect NYC treat that I will miss in the “country.” (There are nothing quite
like the bagels in the City!) On Monday, my stomach will start growling at the
appointed hour for Tori’s Treats. Who’s going to send me a care package?
I can’t wait to read all your messages of support and set
up my Juilliard swag at my new rustic desk. Every day it will remind me of the
best of the Big J moments. I can’t wait to have time on the train to crochet up
the yarn that I will get at Knitty City. I just have to remember to put my Big
J lunch bag in my Big J yarn bag and not leave it on the train.
Like I said, it was the connections forged here that
really made hard for me to decide to take this step -- connections that I
know won’t be broken even if I am up in the "country" and you're all
down here. I’m not kidding about those Summer Fridays off. I do I expect
to see at least some of you opera music lovers at Caramoor's summer
festival and I WILL be sending you brochures.
This isn’t goodbye, but THANK YOU. I will see, talk,
text, and email you all soon.
Thanks gang....
And that means you too, readers and family. You've been part of this long long long processing process.
* That's a whole other blog post.
** Yup. Does all the foreshadowing make sense now?
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