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PROGRAMMING NOTE from the Author and Archivist


So obviously I just stopped blogging on this platform. I'll get back to it eventually. Or not. I'm taking a break from all social media. It seemed necessary for my mental health.

The last few years have been busy and … challenging:

- 2015 Happened.
- 2016 Let's call it The Lost Year. (Obviously words failed me.)
- 2017 about broke me. Literally. Mentally.
- 2018 was ridiculous, proving 2017 was just a warm up. (Good thing I was already broken so it couldn't hurt as much.#2018TrashCanFire I thought things were going okay, but maybe not?)

- 2019 was such a blur. I know there were highlights, but then stuff happened and carried into the next year...

- And then in March#2020 really took a turn. Who can even categorize 2020? Do we dare?


I kinda want a do-over of some of the last few years. But life doesn’t work that way.


So for now, I'm hunkering down. Regrouping. Trying to stay safe and sort some stuff out.


Stay safe everyone. Stay well.

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Friday, July 31, 2015

Updates: Kute Kids Korner - Jaime

With thanks to Grumpa for grabbing these off the sib's social media, so I can collect them and share all at once:


May 2015


Quoth Christina: "For days she has been fighting her legs to get those toes and finally she has won!"

Quoth: "Somehow another month has flown by! Jaime is 5 months old today."


Grandmary's friend Mrs. P sent these to Ms. Fashionplate. 
Grumpa things the hats need a few more months.


June 2015 

Quoth Christina: "This little one is growing so fast!Don't you love her untamed hair!? Sure love her."


July 2015 

What is it with these kids and their underwear as hats?

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Updates: Kute Kids 'Kaus - The Twins

With thanks to Grumpa for grabbing these off the sib's social media, so I can collect them and share all at once:

May 2015
Quoth Kelli: What do you do when your kid paints herself with peanut butter? 
 Quoth Grumpa: I think I have seen that look somewhere before!

June 2015


Quoth Kelli: Splash pad? We don't need no stinkin' splash pad! 

Quoth Kelli: My twins refuse to be potty trained. 
They believe that underwear is meant to be a fashion statement for their heads......UGH!

Happy Father's Day?

The Twins at Thanksgiving Point

July 2015

Quoth Bro: Sarah's not happy until she gets her morning cup o' Joe!
Quoth me: Me NEITHER!



Quoth Kelli: New books from the library and peace and quiet for Mom..........priceless!
This makes me happier than I can say.

Quoth Kelli: Sarah loves broccoli stalks. Of all the green veggies she could like.......weird daughter. Face with stuck-out tongue and winking eye

early August 2015 

Quoth Kelli: Looks like someone ate a grasshopper:)

Forget your little finger. She's wrapped around all your fingers.

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Quote of the Day

from Twitter

Monday, July 27, 2015

Updates: Kute Kids 'Kaus - DrewDawg

With thanks to Grumpa for grabbing these off the sib's social media, so I can collect them and share all at once:

Drew is old enough to have his own text, FaceTiming, and phone conversations with me - for better or worse for his parent's cellphone/wifi plans.

Since one notable message was:

You there dawg...

Um, try instructing a 10 year old that no woman wants to be called a DAWG ...
He's 10.
He's now more DrewDawg than Drewbie. Sadly. Though this auntie will ALWAYS call him Drewbie. My great-aunts still call me .... [REDACTED].

His parents, grandparents, and I have found random photos and selfies of Mr. DrewDawg -- which we now share with you.

May 2015

Quoth Kelli: Just curious.....does anyone else find that pics like these mysteriously appear on their phone?


June 2015 

Family Trip to Thanksgiving Point, but someone is missing

  Full Family, c. 2015
If this seems familiar. It is.
 
Caption: My parents are weird.  c. 2009

Quoth his father:  Drew out for morning range practice. Getting better every day.

Sunday, July 26, 2015

Happy Aunties Day 2015!

Established in 2009 by Melanie Notkin, Auntie's Day was created to "to celebrate and honor aunts by relation, aunts by choice to friends' children, godmothers, and all women who play an active role in the life of a child not-their-own."


She posted this article in the Huffington Post recently, and I thought it was fun to shares some of it, today on Aunties Day.  



... every aunt knows how fortunate we are to have the love of our nieces and nephews. And we are grateful to their parents, who have given us the gift of aunthood. And so, Auntie's Day is also a time for us to appreciate all really good things that aunthood brings: 


1. When a newborn niece or nephew holds our finger with her or his tiny fingers for the first time, and we can't help but whisper: "I will love you forever."

2. The first time a niece or nephew says "Auntie" (or something that sounds remotely like "Auntie," or the name they will use to refer to us from then on), we know we are bonded forever.

3. The day we scream uncontrollably: "He's walking! He's walking! My nephew is walking!"

4. The nicknames we give them that are some combination of their proper name and the sound a heart makes when it's exploding with joy.

5. Hearing: "Higher, Auntie! Push me higher!" from a little kid voice on a big kid swing.

6. And hearing sweet little voices over the phone singing the same holiday songs we sang when we were kids.

7. When you visit and children come running to greet you with hugs and kisses and things to show and tell you.

8. We make up silly songs and sing them together over and over again, and again and again, each time we visit.

9. Bath time with baby! And all the delicious snuggles as we wrap them securely in their towel.

10. The way they nuzzle their little head into our chest as we read to them.

11. There are many more unicorns and sparkly rainbows in these children's worlds than in our own.

12. We get to do the things with them we never did as kids -- or always did as kids. Either way, it's much more fun to do it with them.

13. There is always a niece who wants to play with our hair.

14. There are children with whom to share our love of Hello Kitty, Snoopy, and Judy Blume.

15. We always have Thanksgiving Day plans.

16. Baking Grandma or Great-Auntie's famous cookies together so they can taste the sweet love handed down from generation to generation.

17. Kissing a "boo boo" and realizing it really does make them feel better.

18. Getting dressed up all fancy to have fancy grown-up lunch at a fancy restaurant for the very first time. Or, maybe, they invite Auntie to a fancy tea party at home with a magical teapot that never runs out of tea and Play-Doh cookies they "baked" just for you in the play kitchen you gave them last holiday season.

19. With each niece or nephew born, our hearts keep growing bigger and bigger.

20. The children's questions about life make us wonder about how many more brilliant questions are to come, and about all the many questions we've never even thought to ask.

21. The look on their faces when they open their gifts!

22. When a child gently slips their little hand in yours.

23. And then, when they ask if they can still hold your hand "even when they're a teenager."

24. When we're invited to see their ballet recitals, skating competitions, hockey games, soccer matches, science expos, and graduations -- and they have no idea it means more to us to be there than it means to them.

25. Seeing them enjoy the purses, jewelry, and other things we've saved for just the time when they're old enough to appreciate them.

26. When they refer to their family, and they include their aunt.

27. Because they have as much fun celebrating our birthdays as they do each other's.

28. The day when we realize we no longer have to consider letting them win the game.

29. Our fridge door always has colorful drawings all over it, and the word "love" is on each work of art.

30. We get to dance in the living room together like nobody's watching.

31. Giggling is catchy.

32. They don't have to love us, and yet, they do.

33. It's always appropriate to skip down the street when you are with children.

34. Teaching them how to use chopsticks. And telling them that eating sushi with your fingers is also OK.

35. Home run! Goal! Touchdown! Arabesque!

36. When they ask that Auntie be the one to put them to bed.

37. When they are shy with a new visitor, and hide behind Auntie for safety.

38. Receiving a gift from a child who put his or her full heart into wanting to give you something special.

39. Some of the bits of knowledge and experience we've gathered over the years are actually useful to them.

40. Those special days, set aside just for the two of you.

41. Knowing a child or teen trusts you and your judgment enough to confide in you or ask for your advice.

42. Those smiles. Oh, those smiles. And when those smiles are directed toward Auntie, they are the best smiles of all.

43. Ice cream! Waffle cones! Colorful sprinkles!

44. No matter how often we see our nieces and nephews, or how not-often-enough we see them, they love us just the same.

45. Years later, they tell us about an experience we shared when they were really little, an experience we had long forgotten, and we realize we've have a much stronger influence on their happiness and well-being than we knew.

46. Even for those of us without children of our own, we are forever part of a beautiful family. Their family. Our family.

47. We're not their mother, and we're not their friend; we're their aunt, the perfect blend.


Happy Auntie's Day, on Sunday, July 26, to all the aunts who give so much to the children you love. Aunthood is a gift. This day is yours. To learn more about Auntie's Day, and for digital posters and ecards to post and share, visit SavvyAuntie.com. Follow @SavvyAuntie on Twitter and Instagram and use #AuntiesDay to share your celebrations and stories on Sunday, July 26! Savvy Aunties are welcome to join the Auntourage on Facebook.


Melanie Notkin is the national bestselling author of Savvy Auntie: The Ultimate Guide for Cool Aunts, Great-Aunts, Godmothers and All Women Who Love Kids (Morrow/HarperCollins). Melanie Notkin's second book, OTHERHOOD: Modern Women Finding a New Kind of Happiness (Seal Press/Penguin Canada), is available now. OTHERHOOD received a prestigious *starred review* by Booklist.



I was a "bad" niece and didn’t' contact MY aunties, but I hope they know I love and miss them all.
 

Friday, July 17, 2015

Quotes of the Day: Blogging



from Twitter

Friday, July 3, 2015